Does she miss me, too?
Do our deceased love ones miss us? Paul offers his perspective.
Lately, I’ve found myself wondering: does Jody miss me as I miss her? Does she long to be reunited with me? I’ve come to believe the answer is yes. For if we are created in God’s image and capable of experiencing both sorrow and joy on earth, it seems likely she can feel these emotions in heaven, too.
But I think there’s one key difference. The joy she experiences in heaven must be far greater than anything we can comprehend. So, while she may feel sadness from being apart from me and her loved ones, being in the presence of the Lord—who is love itself—makes that sorrow bearable.
Perhaps this is why the Book of Revelation tells us there are no tears or mourning in heaven. The overwhelming joy of God’s presence must overshadow any sadness she feels—especially with the assurance that our separation is only temporary. That same hope also reminds me that my own grief and sorrow are temporary, measured against the vastness of eternity.
Love you, sweetheart.
Love you all.
About Paul
If you've navigated the complexities of love, loss, or life's unpredictable twists and turns, this blog is for you. Paul, who was diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease in 2022 and lost his beloved Jody in 2024, is also a father, new grandfather and a speaker/writer. Paul writes to make sense of the world around him, sharing his personal journey through grief, Parkinson’s, and life's challenges. With a mix of lightheartedness, thoughtfulness, and unwavering authenticity, Paul offers a relatable and heartfelt perspective on the human experience. His writing is often described as warm, genuine and deeply moving.